A busca pelo outro: escolhas e expectativas no amor em jovens adultos
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2020-12-22
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Alves, Camila Alessandra Lúcio
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Universidade Estadual Paulista (Unesp)
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Esta pesquisa propõe compreender o amor e suas transformações desde a Grécia Antiga até o século XXI, considerando os processos históricos e a evolução dos cenários políticos, econômicos, sociais e culturais. Levando em conta os aspectos subjetivantes do amor, que sofrem alterações diante das características e exigências vigentes nos diferentes momentos sócio-históricos, buscamos compreender as aspirações e os modos de vinculação amorosa de jovens adultos na contemporaneidade. Em um sentido mais específico, direcionamos um olhar atento às repercussões deste cenário de transformações atuais no modo de se vincular amorosamente, buscando o acesso às expectativas da busca amorosa e as dificuldades envolvidas diante do compromisso e das desilusões causadas pelo amor. Para desvendarmos as questões suscitadas na pesquisa, partimos da proposta de uma pesquisa qualitativa, utilizando a técnica do grupo focal, onde foram entrevistados dez jovens adultos, sendo seis homens e quatro mulheres, com idades entre 20 e 30 anos, solteiros, compromissados e, em maioria, heterossexuais. Os resultados apontaram que nos homens prevalece um ideal fundamentado no imperativo social do sucesso, e assim, o amor e suas exigências de renúncias são postergados, ao contrário das mulheres, que valorizam um amor estável. Diante das dificuldades em investir libidinalmente na carreira, sucesso profissional e econômico assim como no amor, os quais demandam um grande investimento pulsional, os resultados da pesquisa apontaram que o sucesso laboral tem sido a prioridade e, portanto, realoca-se o desejo de amar e a disposição para compartilhar uma vida amorosa. Porém, o temor da perda, do sofrimento e os ideais de reciprocidade permanecem vigentes, causando conflitos e dificuldades no tocante a aliar tais demandas com as exigências atuais.
This research proposes to understand the love and its transformations, regarding the historical process and the evolution of the political, economical, social and cultural scenarios. Considering the subjectivating aspects of love and the suffering changes in front of the characteristics and demands presented in the different historic social we manage to comprehend the moments; we seek to understand the aspirations and ways of love bonding of young adults nowadays. In a more accurate way, we manage to understand the repercussion of this current transformation scenario in a way to bond ourselves in love ties, seeking admission to the expectations of love searching and the difficulties in front of the commitment and the emotional delusion due to love. To unveil the issues raised in the research, we started from the proposal of qualitative research using the focus group technique. In general, were interviewed ten young adults, six men and four women at 20-30 age range; single and committed. The result showed that in men, there is a based idea on the social imperative of success, and then, love and its demands of renunciation are postponed, unlike women, who value stable love. Facing the difficulties of investing libidinally on the career, professional and economic success as well as in love, which demand a great drive investment, the research results showed that job success has been the priority, so it reallocates the desire of loving and the willingness to share an amorous live. However, the fear of loss, suffering and the ideals of reciprocity remain on, making conflicts and difficulties regarding gathering such demands with the current requirements.
This research proposes to understand the love and its transformations, regarding the historical process and the evolution of the political, economical, social and cultural scenarios. Considering the subjectivating aspects of love and the suffering changes in front of the characteristics and demands presented in the different historic social we manage to comprehend the moments; we seek to understand the aspirations and ways of love bonding of young adults nowadays. In a more accurate way, we manage to understand the repercussion of this current transformation scenario in a way to bond ourselves in love ties, seeking admission to the expectations of love searching and the difficulties in front of the commitment and the emotional delusion due to love. To unveil the issues raised in the research, we started from the proposal of qualitative research using the focus group technique. In general, were interviewed ten young adults, six men and four women at 20-30 age range; single and committed. The result showed that in men, there is a based idea on the social imperative of success, and then, love and its demands of renunciation are postponed, unlike women, who value stable love. Facing the difficulties of investing libidinally on the career, professional and economic success as well as in love, which demand a great drive investment, the research results showed that job success has been the priority, so it reallocates the desire of loving and the willingness to share an amorous live. However, the fear of loss, suffering and the ideals of reciprocity remain on, making conflicts and difficulties regarding gathering such demands with the current requirements.
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Amor, Jovens adultos, Psicanálise, Vínculos